Though details are still sketchy, fillers emanating suggest that Chris Oyakhilome, Senior Pastor of the Christ Embassy Church may have finally come to his senses, ditched his bevy of ladies and reconciled with his wife, Anita Oyakhilome (Nee Ebodaghe).
In the height of their marital crisis, Anita
had sought divorce based on what she described as her husband's inexplicable
behaviour.
Investigation revealed that Chris over time
had developed a habit of surrounding himself with female Church members,
some of who lived with him in his Lagos home, popularly referred to as
« White House.»
Some of the ladies, particularly one Pastor
Yemisi Kudehinbu, a pharmacy graduate of the University of
Lagos who is
in her late forties played the role of his wife. Her closeness to Chris
Oyakhilome dates back to the 90's, when she was a Pastor of the Christ Embassy
Student Fellowship (Believers Love World). As soon Anita travelled to London
over the failing health of one of their daughters, Yemisi moved in with Chris.
She lived with him, cooked for him, bought his clothes, drove him around and
travelled everywhere with him.
However, she moved out anytime Anita was in
Nigeria, but returned as soon as Anita travelled back to London.
Even after their daughter fully recovered from
her ailment, Anita was not allowed to return to Nigeria, she was only allowed
to visit during Church programmes, such as camp meeting e.t.c. Elder T. Oyakhilome,
Chris Oyakhilome's father intervened several times, but his efforts were
rebuffed by his son.
While Anita Oyakhilome was only allowed to visit
her matrimonial home, Yemisi lived and thrived there. Yemisi became so
powerful within Christ Embassy that she could hire and fire, she began to
override decisions by many senior pastors in the ministry including Anita.
Irked by this and many other development which we
can't pen down, Anita Oyakhilome sought to be accorded more respect in her home
and the ministry she co-founded. When her request was rebuffed by her
husband, Chris Oyakhilome, she quit her job as Pastor, stopped attending the
Church and filed for divorce.
Chris Oyakhilome responded with a televised
broadcast, saying: « A child of God must not
divorce . » "My wife (Anita) is a bitter woman. I am not a
preacher, I am a man of God, where was the wife of Peter or Paul mentioned in
the Bible."
This assertion made many question to Chris
Oyakhilome's understanding of the scriptures, because Paul, whom he cited his
name, urged Christian men to deal with their wife with understanding. Paul called
the wife joint- heir of the grace of life and that if a man does
not treat his spouse right his prayer will be blocked.
In the heat of the crisis, Pastor Chris
transferred his chief security officer, Pastor Pat, from Lagos to Benin for
informing his (Chris) mother about his ordeal and suspended a female Pastor who
raised prayer request for his marriage.
Our checks reveal that Pastor Yemisi Kudehinbu,
who lived with Chris Oyakhilome for more than 18 years playing wifey, had
threatened to expose him, if he ever returned to his real wife (Anita).
However, it remains to be seen if she will carry out her threat
the yemisi of a lady 'if what is reported of her is true is not a pastor but a distractor and should go get her own husband ,even at 40 she can still get someone to marry and cherish her.
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